The difference between throwing an OK party and an amazing one is how you, the host, make it a memorable event.
A good party needs to have many different factors come together to help you create the perfect storm. This includes your guest list, playlist, theme, food, drinks, and what you do at the party.
While there is no one right way to throw the perfect bash, there are some things you can do as the party host to be the hostess with the mostest!
Don’t Overcomplicate Things
A good party host knows how not to make things harder for themselves than they need to be. They don’t go over the top and try to impress; they do what comes naturally and is the right thing for their guests.
It might be using store-bought snacks and chips, making basic food everyone will eat to keep them full, not impressed, or it can ordering takeout. Whatever makes your life easier, go for it.
They Go With The Flow
The last thing you want to be doing is trying to “schedule fun.” A good party host accepts that not everyone wants to play games or do activities.
They simply suss out the vibe of the party, know their guests, and are prepared to pull out games at any given moment if the atmosphere calls for it or keep them hidden so as not to ruin the vibe.
They Don’t Care for Perfection
The last thing you should be concerned about when hosting a party is perfection. Perfection doesn’t exist, and you cannot please everyone all of the time.
So why bother? Simply do what you can do and make the best of the situation.
Get your party supplies, food, and drink, and then roll with the punches. Your guests won’t be looking for perfection; they will be after a fun time. If things go wrong, make the best of the situation and try not to stress about it; sometimes, the more things go awry, the more fun it is.
Play The Right Music
The best party hosts know exactly what type of music to play for the guests they are inviting. You want fun, upbeat music to keep the party atmosphere going and put everyone in a good mood.
So, choose your playlist carefully.
Again, not all of your guests will be on the same page as to what constitutes a good playlist, but keeping it light and upbeat is a good place to start. Then, when the party is over, and you want people to leave you can bring out the depressing stuff to signal the end of the night.
Know Who To Invite
You don’t need to invite everyone to every get-together, and a good host knows this. You need to know who gels well together, who causes issues, and what pairings are not conducive to a good party.
Knowing how to arrange your guest list and who to invite for certain parties can help you make your party better without stressing over the small details.
At the end of the day, parties are supposed to be fun, and if something is causing you stress or will be stressful, then remove it from the equation because nothing brings a party down faster than a stressed-out host who is too focused on the insignificant details to have a good time.
